And So It Continues by Gray Moore

Honors, I sincerely apologize for the rant I am about to go on but I will not apologize for the message behind it. In chapters 10-12, Wollstonecraft’s view on education honestly kind of hit me pretty hard. She was obviously a well educated woman and proved that it was possible for females to prosper in education, especially literature. Her belief in parenting and the roles that father and mother play was very interesting to me. I remember growing up with a teacher for a mother and the influence she had on my love for education. Wollstonecraft attests to this kind of relationship between a mother and her children, and how they should be an educational guide to their kids. While I would venture to say most of you would see this as unbiblical because “the man is called to be the leader in all aspects of the household”, I’m going to go ahead and tell you that you are wrong. The husband is supposed to be just as supportive of the wife’s decision and roles as she is to him. So educating their children should be no different. I don’t believe she was saying that only women should deal with education, but that it should be a partnership in the home. If I’ve stepped on any toes in saying this, let me reassure you, I fully intended to do so.

Comments

Hailey Morgan said…
Gray, am I even allowed to begin by saying "amen?" Too late, I just did!

I totally and entirely agree that husbands and wives are meant to support each other! It's not just meant to be a one-way-road of encouragement, the husband has to do his part as well!

The way you reiterated and better explained Wollstonecraft's method of thought is simply stunning! I really hope you bring this up in a, "According to my blog post," moment tomorrow in class!
Clabo said…
I do completely agree with you. Some people take the "man is supposed to be the leader of the house" saying too far. It is a partnership and teamwork in every possible sense. While the wife may be able to present different aspects to the education of the children than the husband, it doesn't mean the husband is not supposed to contribute. The husband is to contribute, but that doesn't mean it has to be the same as his wife. They both are to bring unique and individual teaching methods and characteristics to the table.
I agree with your post completely. Although in the past women did not have the freedom they do today, I believe our society has lost sight of what the family household was intended to look like. It is a two-way street, and both, the husband and wife, have important roles. Men need to remember they were made to lead their families to the cross and wives are supposed to support their husbands. I am not saying that women do not have the same freedoms or abilities though!
Katie Byars said…
I definitely agree. Marriage and parenting should be equal. both people should share in the responsibilities and liabilities. It should not be just the husband leading and making the decisions while the wife supports him, and it should not go the other way around either the wife leads while the husband supports. Both are equal and support each other and will carry each other in the relationship.
Zane Duke said…
I agree, but I believe that you are taking the viewpoint of the leadership roles as a husband out of context. The leadership spoken of in the context of marriage is not one-sided, but one of service. When we say the husband is supposed to lead the wife, we mean that the husband is supposed to serve the wife. As for the children, I do agree that an equal amount of education from both sides is very important. I believe that if we are to be good parents, then we are both to have special relationships with our children. I know that when I become a Dad and a husband, I'm going to sacrifice myself and my needs to meet the needs of my wife and my kids, and in doing so be the leader of the crew. The leader is the one who goes out ahead and stays behind to protect the pack. The leader cannot lead without first serving.